Monday, July 25, 2011

Don't wait until its too late...

Family issues... bah... who doesn't have? I bet anyone who uses "google.com/yahoo.com/facebook.com/youtube.com" has their own version of their family issues... Can't talk to your parents? Always fighting with your siblings? Nobody really cares about you and what you are doing? Parents refuse to listen to you and force you doing things you don't like? Parents fighting a lot? Or in the adult world, the version goes, fighting with your siblings to get your parents' money? Your parents are giving you a lot of problems growing old? You and your spouse are always fighting and nobody is ever willing to say "I'm sorry darling.."? Your kids never communicate with you because you are always yelling at them and never give the a chance to say what its in their mind?

Oh well. Maybe all of the above. What I'm trying to say is. All these issues are basically nothing new. Yet beings always fail to solve or attempt to solve, these issues. Understanding what you are facing is one thing, accepting it and trying to fix it is another thing. Most of them surprisingly, actually know how to approach it yet they never really attempted it.

Come on, let's face it. We all know how to talk about the others but we never dare to look at ourselves in that perspective and actually admit that we have the same problem and need to fix them a.s.a.p.

Adults are basically losers who thinks they know what are best for you and they know it all. Well, they do know things kids don't know. But hey, watch your pride and stubbornness before you approach alright. Many times, they have no clue what they are saying.

Panicking as my age is slowly catching up. And what's more? Noticing adults around me are behaving like crazy people. Always thinking what they do is the right thing to do. What the hell, what ever it is, there's no way anyone is going to force me into the dirty adult world. The selfish, stubborn, stupid, senseless, nonsense world of the adults. There's nothing to be proud of if you behave well in front of people, here I mean strangers, unless potential robbers/rapist etc. better still you behave madly so that people won't come and approach you right? I'm not saying that everyone shouldn't behave well, behaving well is courtesy and manners of course. It's just that don't pretend to act serious stern and boring aka behave well even in situations when you don't need to behave, e.g. a rock concert, a dinner gathering, a private party function? Something like that.. I think I'm sorta outta the topic... not even on the topic... anyways... I'm just saying. I sincerely believe that one should just behave normally at all times, and be a little bit serious about your environment when you are at places like the court, when you are fighting some serious case, the hospital, when someone is ill or dying, the bank, so that people wouldn't rob you, on the road when driving, so that your safety is taken care of, the parliament, if you ever need to be there, don't ask me why, any government offices, or the the police station, so that you won't have to go to jail. Other than that, just be yourself.

One big principal for all of you as a guide: Never take anything for granted. Or you will be sorry one day without even noticing what you did wrong.



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